Being a maid of honor or bridesmaid means you do more than help the bride shop for her gown and purchase a bridesmaid dress and shoes. It also means you can host or co-host a bridal shower or bachelorette party that can be fun and helpful.
Bridal showers are showers because the bride is supposed to be “showered” with love, attention, and, of course, gifts that help her get started in her new life. The custom originated in the 1890s and was originally intended to ensure that the couple received gifts and monetary support to ensure that the wedding took place and that they could start their life after the ceremony.
Decades ago, most couples did not live together before marriage, so gifts were common to include everything needed to set up housekeeping- things like housewares, bath towels, bed linens, and table settings. More modern brides and grooms have often lived together or on their own for a time, allowing them to accumulate many items that would typically be given as shower or wedding gifts.
So, if you’re looking to throw an exciting bridal shower with a contemporary theme couples might appreciate, look no further.
Pack the Pantry. Having a well-stocked pantry is like having money in the bank. With common and essential ingredients, your friend and her intended spouse will be more likely to cook in their homes and enjoy their kitchen together. If you know the bride and groom are foodies or enjoy cooking, you may want to throw a shower that focuses on gathering meal preparation essentials.
Basics like kosher and sea salt, peppercorn grinder, olive oil, and an array of vinegar, including balsamic, red wine, rice, and apple cider, would be considered necessary. Flour, cream of tartar, cocoa powder, baking powder, baking soda, granulated, brown, and confectioners sugar would also be some dry items needed. Don’t forget rice, grains, canned goods, and those all-important and ever-expensive dried herbs and spices! Add a few food-themed bridal shower games, and your bride will love the thoughtfulness and creativity of your pantry party!
Gather the Recipes. A gather-the-recipe party is similar to a pantry party. Instead of random items to stock the pantry, the guests provide one or two of their favorite recipes on stationery or decorative index cards. As part of the “gift,” each guest has purchased and packaged all of the ingredients needed to make the recipes, from the salt to the pasta to the protein required.
Like Home Fresh or Blue Apron meal kit delivery programs, this idea will surely be a winner for busy brides during the wedding planning process and in the early weeks of marriage as the couple settles into their new routine. Since the recipes are gathered by people who know and love the couple, they will surely be tried and true and focus on things the bride and groom will enjoy eating.
Stock the Bar. Perhaps your bride and groom are lovers of alcoholic beverages and enjoy throwing parties in their home or apartment. You may help your couple stock their bar by having shower guests purchase craft beers, wines, garnishes, and some essentials of a working bar, like bottles of gin, tequila, vodka, bourbon, scotch, and rum. Mixers like soda, ginger ale, cranberry juice, orange juice, and tomato juice could also be included.
Don’t forget that there are many other items needed for a bar. Wine glasses, martini glasses, shot glasses, jiggers, and rocks glasses are important, along with a martini shaker, strainer, toothpicks, and napkins. Maybe your friends’ at-home bar needs decor like bar trays, bar tray tables, or a shelf bar toolset. Stocking the bride’s at-home bar will surely be a hit for the couple who loves entertaining.
Bring on the Books. Maybe the bride and groom aren’t much for partying but enjoy quiet evenings at Home. For the bibliophiles in your life, a book bash might be something they’d want. From American classics that everyone should read to the many self-help books available for men, women, and young couples, the possibilities are endless. Maybe you want each guest to choose their favorite text and inscribe it for the team, or perhaps you decide to provide each guest with a topic and let them shop for a book that fits; providing the bride and groom with pleasant reading can make for an interesting shower.
No matter what you choose to do, remember that the most important things for planning a shower are food and fun. What games, activities, food options, or themes have you seen for bridal showers? Feel free to share here.
