Yves Saint Laurent once said that “fashion fades, style is eternal”. This is definitely true especially with all the trends in fashion and fasion accessories that come and go. Although our preferences may change over time, style is something that is developed by our experiences, our environment, and our influences. It may be our mother, our aunt, our dad, our favorite actress or athlete; we all have someone that we look up to in terms of fashion style. Aside from that, our upbringing and cultures also play a big role in the development of our style.
Understanding Style and Fashion
When it comes to being stylish and fashionable, people will always remember us not for the clothes or accessories we wore, but how we carried them while exuding grace and confidence. Style is the expression of our personality without having to open our mouths. It can be seen in the way we act, the way we talk, and how we dress and present ourselves to others.
Fashion is something that is constantly changing. For some people, it may be difficult to stay afloat a sea of people who are all trying to fit in and follow the trends. By having a unique fashion style, you will be able to stand out and be someone that is worth-remembering.
How do we find our own style?
There is no formula in discovering what your style is. Each of us is different, our tastes may vary, and we may have been brought up in different times and environments. We discover our style by being open to trying new things, and by sticking to what make us happy. Below is a step-by-step guide to finding one’s own fashion style.
1) Experiment with fashion trends.
If you have no clue on what your style is, then don’t be afraid to experiment. Research, read fashion magazines, ask friends or experts who can help you decide on what you want. Don’t be afraid to test out different styles, whether it be chic, grunge, goth, preppy, or whatever it is you feel comfortable with, and try sticking to it. Do remember that you might not always get it on your first try. Don’t give up, as this is a trial and error process where you are entitled to make mistakes.
2) Find inspiration and make it your own
It would also be helpful if you idolized someone else’s style. You can gain inspiration from having a role model as this can help you build your own style. You can start by copying looks and outfits, but eventually you must learn how to create a style that is uniquely yours. Here you will discover the things you’re comfortable with. If they feel wrong or if you’re doubting how it will look on you, then don’t force it. The best way to know if something is right for you is if you are confident and happy with your choice, regardless of other people’s opinions.
3) Choose comfort and just have fun with it.
Many say fashion should be uncomfortable, but real style should not. Your fashion style should not be forced. When you wear clothes and project the image you want other people to see, the only thing they should see is pure confidence. If you’re not comfortable with your style then it will show no matter how hard you hide it.